Bring a friend
With their permission, create the profile that shows why they’re such a catch.
MATCHMAKING, MADE POSSIBLE
You already know someone great. With their permission, setem gives you a place to create their profile, find someone who could be right for them, and make the introduction.
“You know who deserves a great match. Go find them one.”
HOW YOU MAKE THE MATCH
With their permission, create the profile that shows why they’re such a catch.
Explore people being introduced by friends who know them just as well.
Start the match, make the introduction, and help turn your hunch into a date.
LOCAL MATCHMAKING
Choose the city or area where your friend wants to date. setem helps you explore compatible people near them, even when you live somewhere else. You bring the personal knowledge. Local discovery helps you find someone they could realistically meet.
Learn how local discovery worksREADY WHEN YOU ARE
Why setem puts trusted friends at the center of a more thoughtful introduction.
Open page →02Quick answers about setting up a friend, matching, introductions, and safety.
Open page →03What setem collects, why we use it, and the choices you have.
Open page →04The rules that keep setem useful, honest, and respectful.
Open page →05Get help with your account, profile, verification, or experience.
Open page →06Request deletion of your setem account and associated personal data.
Open page →MATCHMAKER GUIDES
Start with compatibility, ask permission, make a simple introduction, and know when to step back.
Read guide →02Support a single friend without overriding their preferences, privacy, or boundaries.
Read guide →03See how a trusted friend can add context to profiles, discovery, and introductions.
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